Someone said that “The lesson will always repeat itself, unless you see yourself as the problem--not others." I can’t agree with this quotation anymore. I always found myself in the guilt after I’d done something wrong with my acquaintances, friends even my family. I’m the one who is overconfident: I didn’t listen to anyone who criticizes my work that I devoted myself to create properly. Moreover, I’m pretty fed up with my friends who are inactive and unhurried with a group task. The dispute often occurs between us and also destroys our relationship little by little. I never ever realized about this before because I didn’t concern about the feelings of others until I found no one when a suffer moment arrived. We can’t live without others in this society, so I try too hard to adjust myself with any people. Firstly, limiting anger when someone isn’t as you wish is the best solution. The various sources create the different people that I’ve to comprehend inevitably. Secondly, the way of expressing your feelings is very important. I often post a new Facebook status to make sarcastic comments on someone, but its effect isn’t worth at all. Therefore, I chose to do nothing with the social network anymore. Lastly, blaming yourself before others is necessary. Nowadays, I always consider about the cause of the problem as well as apologize to my disputant before anyone else. From these experiences, I’ve learned that the easiest way to escape from the problem is to solve it.